Determined to be right at all costs is not love.
If there is any conditions attached to living your life from love then you are loving in your mind which is the ego and you will never receive what you really want in your own life coming from that space.
Putting love out from your heart what will make you feel good and it will come back to you.
If that is scary to do – remember pure love can never be wrong. And therefore there can be no fear.
If there if fear then you are living from your mind which has an attachment to an outcome.